The mindset you choose bears directly upon the success of your love life (and your success in general). "all the good ones are taken" - begets neediness, and neediness is not attractive.
Big-heartedness and self-sufficiency, on the other hand, work much better. 'Enlightened' means that you make decisions by considering the long-term consequences of your actions. "I know he's a bad boy, but it'll be so much welfare takes priority, just like in the pre-flight announcement where they say put on your own oxygen mask first, then help others in the case of an emergency. We see this in nature: water runs from high to low; electricity flows between cathode and anode; magnetic force goes between north and south poles. Without polarity, relationships fall flat, whether in heterosexual or same-sex couples: has to wear the pants.
I’d be thrilled to hear your thoughts, since it will not only help me create better material for you, but also get to know you better.
As a gesture of thanks for participating in the survey, I’ve put ebook on sale for 67% off in all territories for the next 72 hours only (sale ends at midnight Sunday Sept 24). To put that in perspective, a mocha or latte at Starbucks costs .15, and an hour of parking in San Francisco or New York City costs . On the other hand, you get to keep this book (which, incidentally, has helped tens of thousands of women) for under 3 beans.
If you already have the book, thank you thank you thank you and please tell a friend.
In the meantime, here are the preliminary results of the survey.
By far, the biggest challenge the respondents encountered was meeting quality men.
I’ve now been dating a really great guy for over 2.5 years. Which brings us to the results of the survey I did last week.If a relationship is making you miserable and unhappy - like that of my friend Holly who was being put down and punched up by the man she was supporting financially - consider ending it. So if you're not getting fulfilling feelings in a relationship, chances are you're with the wrong person. As a woman, if you take on too much yang, you risk turning into a facsimile of a guy, which may be admirable but not necessarily attractive. Recently a very intelligent woman wrote to tell me she couldn't date guys who were less smart than her, because they bored her.Strength is great, but remember that femininity is what draws in the masculine. And when she finally found a guy who smarter than her, she found herself competing with him and putting him down out of insecurity, thereby driving him away. So much pain in dating is self-inflicted and has to do with upholding our own importance or appeasing the ego. Your reactions to the “Bad Boys & Addictions” article was swift and enthusiastic.Turns out that almost every woman has had some kind of experience with bad boys, not all of them healthy. ” Here’s one from Theresa: This post really hit me.