In the example below this girl previously said she was going to spend her Sunday afternoon binge watching Iron Man.I could have just texted her “hey Anna did you finish watching Iron Man?NOTE: If she’s already lost interest and gone from “hot” to “cold” make sure you haven’t made any of these 21 shocking mistakes texting girls.Face to face meet ups are where the intimate with her. Before you can get her out on a date, you need to make her both comfortable and excited about the idea of meeting up with you.Turns out it was the former and I found this out by being bold and just asking.I thought I made it clear that I wasn't looking for another guy friend (by meeting him for all of these "dates"), I felt like I had to be 110 percent clear on why I couldn't just hang out.I don't claim to know it all when it comes to relationships, but I do know (i.e.have learned the hard way) when it's time to lay down the law and figure out WTF is going on.
The goal of texting is to meet up with her, NOT have long drawn out conversations that go nowhere.
Usually when a woman texts something boring like “how was your day” or “what are you doing?
” it’s because she’s bored and is looking for fun relief.
Schoolyard humour – find out when she had her first kiss, share your own first kiss story, joke about how you were the nerd at school, find out if she was a nerd or popular kid, etc.
Pop Culture – find out what TV shows she’s into, flirt with the idea about you binge watching some together some time, use references from those TV shows in your text conversations.